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What is “sexy” to you, and how would you define that word yourself?
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I think sexiness comes from confidence, and in my opinion, a sense of humor. How about you?
I think sexiness comes from confidence, and in my opinion, a sense of humor. How about you?
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February 3rd, 2010 at 10:53 pm
Sexiness is being confident in your own skin, being confident in a group, able to carry conversations that don’t consist of “F Us” and F That’s”. A great sense of humor, and enough faith in his masculinity to not be all macho, all the time.
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February 3rd, 2010 at 11:37 pm
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Hey, speak of the devil!
Nice round butt in tight clothing. Hair that covers the face a little. A nice smile. Eyes that say “I want you”. Mainly the round butt though.
OK you take the 2 ladies above and below me and you’ve got all the sexy you’ll ever need.
[Edit: Well I thought about it and I cannot let my answer stand as is. OK, I do like women's posteriors and I am not ashamed to admit it. But I have no clue what either of these ladies looks like upstairs or downstairs or wherever. Yet they are both very sexy. And the reason is simply their personalities. What is sexy is a woman who is comfortable with her femininity and who does not discourage masculinity in men. It is a real turn on, especially these days where women seem to disrespect femininity in women AND masculinity in men. So if she doesn't mind doing small favours like sewing a button on for me (not that I am dependent on her, but just because she wants to do something nice) I am more than happy to do things for her like opening jars, heavy lifting, or just buying her something she'll like etc.]
February 4th, 2010 at 12:31 am
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aren’t you sweet!
I think you need confidence and a certain attitude to be sexy as pretty is generally physical as you can be pretty and dull whereas I don’t think you can be sexy and dull.
I think sexy is more personality based as someone who isn’t traditionally good looking can be sexy.
I don’t consider myself to be attractive in that way. I don’t think I have the confidence!!
If I get complimented I tend to get called cute, sweet or pretty. I am in my early 20’s but I can pass for 15 or 16 so I’m not sure sexy would be an appropriate description given that I look so young!
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February 4th, 2010 at 1:07 am
Yes, I agree. And for me its something about the way a person moves, its hard to explain.
February 4th, 2010 at 1:22 am
Me.
February 4th, 2010 at 1:34 am
How would I define that…? By saying “Me”
February 4th, 2010 at 2:23 am
i’ve never really thought about that. good question.
i guess sexy to me would be my boyfriend:
hes tall,
dark hair,
really nice body,
he has a great personality,
makes me laugh,
really smart,
and puts up with all my bs.
February 4th, 2010 at 2:45 am
tight abs, cute face, tone legs, holding a beer for me
February 4th, 2010 at 3:25 am
You cannot provide a general, universal meaning for sexiness. What you find sexy and what others find sexy will naturally differ enormously. Sexiness is not linked to confidence – its just what people find physically attractive / arousing. Some people find quiet nerds with glasses and braces sexy, others may like bald men etc etc
February 4th, 2010 at 3:40 am
Sexiness only comes in one form and thats physical beauty!
When someone is stunning and hot looking, thats sexy. I don’t see how anyone can find inner stuff to be sexy. My friend who is obese and huge and not attractive is SO funny and SO nice inside but it doesn’t make me want to scr3w him.
February 4th, 2010 at 3:53 am
WOOF! WOOF!
’nuff said.
February 4th, 2010 at 4:40 am
Anything that can still get my d*ck hard in this blasé decade of overexposure and overstimulation.
February 4th, 2010 at 4:40 am
I agree with Li.
I think a good personality can be charming, attractive maybe, but never “sexy”. Sexiness involves sex appeal or “hotness”, and that is something totally physic, involuntary and natural. The potential partner you want to mix your genes with is sexy, and a good personality can make you want him/her by your side badly but it doesn’t make you wanna have sex with him/her.
Some people doesn’t like it, but we’re animals and sexual attraction is purely physical, it’s not the only kind of attraction and it’s not always the most important one, but things are as they are.
February 4th, 2010 at 5:04 am
I agree with Li. “Sexy” is a term that only applies to physical appearance. You can’t say his personality is sexy, or that guy is so funny he’s sexy! If you’re asking about attractive, then I’d say confidence, maturity, sense of humor, wittiness (a big turn on for me!), being civilized (no childish, immature F U’s) and intelligence.
February 4th, 2010 at 5:11 am
Sexy: Something that I find sexually appealing.
What’s sexy to me?
When a guy makes me laugh and laughs at my jokes
When a guy can have an intellectual conversation with me
When a guy challenges me
Confidence is sexy but I want him to be able to admit that as a human being he has flaws too
I think honesty is sexy. A guy doesn’t have to be completely honest about everything about what’s on his mind. But when he’s willing to share a bit with me of what’s really on his mind I find that appealing.
Li I have to disagree any man that can make me laugh and make me really happy I always find them incredibly sexy….
February 4th, 2010 at 6:02 am
sexy is a state of mind not the way you dress or if you flirt.you have it or you dont.sexy to me isnt running around showing your ass.thats just being a slut.
February 4th, 2010 at 6:56 am
I find a women sexy when she finds herself sexy.